October…the time of the year where the honeymoon period is over with students and the leaves start changing colors (everywhere except Florida.) It’s surprisingly been a fast month, literally and figuratively. It’s been a month of many hills and valleys!
Upon checking my photos, I don’t have many. That seems unusual because I know I’ve had a great month and have been adding many stickers to my journal. To be honest, despite the valleys (good things) I’ve climbed many hills this month.
To be fully transparent, I’m still healing. This week the ‘past’ thoughts haven’t been on my mind as much, but they’re still present daily. They hurt, and I acknowledge them, but keep going about my day. It’s still a hill I’m climbing.
A valley this month has been my running. For the first time in a decade, I’ve consistently ran 5 days a week, averaging about 30 miles per week without injury. I’m proud of that. I haven’t missed a Monday run club yet! I’m doing my pushups, planks, and cardio daily. I’m seeing my body change positively. And… I have the students holding me accountable by eating strawberries in front of both my classes daily.
Upon walking into my school today, a para said to her daughter, “There’s the fun teacher! Hopefully you get him one day!” Then she looked at right at me and said, “The community is talking all about you!” It’s true, I’ve heard my name floated around in positive ways a lot this month. That’s an honor. I don’t try to extravagant, just myself and people have liked that. It seems like the students and parents are really trusting and enjoying me.
Unfortunately, despite that incredible compliment and others, the feeling of loneliness has been a hill for me. I love my team, they’re incredible, but I don’t feel part of them. Most of them worked together for years at their former school. This is the second school I’ve gone to where I’ve had to make all new friends. I haven’t missed a lunch with the team, but I don’t say a word because many of the conversations I’m not familiar with. I still love them and the other teachers, and I am happy and love coming to work! I know it took me until year two or three at my previous school to truly feel part of it. It’ll happen, just a matter of when.
I’ve loved coming to work so much that oftentimes I’ve gone to events following the school day. Two weeks ago, I went to the trunk or treat event. I had a blast! I only planned to stay half an hour but had so much fun with parents and students I stayed over an hour! Last week we hosted a kickball game near our school. It was so much fun! So many students showed up that we had four games going at once. I was busy coaching…and was able to hit two homeruns! It brought back great memories from previous years of me coaching and playing kickball. Last night, I changed my plans last minute to attend two students I teach play softball. I stayed after to keep talking to their parents and themselves. I plan on going to two theater plays and gymnastic events soon!
Another hill embarrassingly has been my reading life. I tried to plan it out. I needed to average a book every nine days for the rest of the year to maintain my 40 books yearly goal and it has not happened. Not because of time, but because of motivation. I thought moving into this apartment would help regain the momentum, but with marathon training and late evenings at school I haven’t put forth the effort. I forgive myself because I’ve put that effort into what I previous mentioned. That’s perfectly okay.
Lastly, I attended my first UCF and Tampa Buccaneers football games! If you know me, parking is normally super stressful, but the more sporting events I attend, the less it stresses me out. I had so much fun at both events! Nothing, but happy memories from each game (despite both games being losses lol)! I hope to go again! Attending sports and playing sports are two things that have made me happy!
I guess you can say October isn’t so scary after all!